- it is 100%okay to be grossed out by romance
- it is 100%okay to be grossed out by sex
- it is 100%okay to not want either of those things near you
- it is 100%okay to not want them spoken about near you
- it is 100%okay to remind people that you don’t want them near you or discussed around you
- it is 100% NOT OKAY to shame anyone for these things