ch33salicious-s3ven:

xyloctavia:

autisticstevonnie:

i don’t think a lotta people realize how much being abused fucks you up for the rest of ur life. like, all of ur relationships and interactions with literally anyone are tinged with fear and anger and guilt, like, trauma is fucking rough, and i don’t fault any fellow survivors dealin with it however they know how but like. if u haven’t gone thru it and ur romanticizing it, then i’m not gonna trust u

Please fucking read this. Please. If you are ever in any form of relationship with me fucking read this.

If people ever wonder why I’m afraid to say no to something

or made to feel bad if I say no (especially if you make me feel bad for saying no)

then read this

I’m an abuse survivor myself