transmabel:

ur worth is never defined by what a stranger on the internet says to u.

especially if they’re going out of their way to make u seem invalid or fake.

this is a reminder for others who’ve been branded an ‘sjw’ by anti sjws. a ‘transtrender’ or not a ‘real’ mentally/chronically ill person by someone who doesn’t know u at all.

it’s ok to be one of those people who has to speak up, has to defend themself, wants to prove their worth. but it’s also ok to just ignore it.

these people find vulnerable folks on the internet. it’s a sad hobby for them. they don’t have a good argument or alibi because that doesn’t matter to them, they just want a reaction.

and it’s always ok to defend urself.

but u don’t have to defend ur validity to someone who won’t listen, who doesn’t care, who will still try and get to u as much as they can.

defend urself like u would defend a friend. make it into a joke because honestly, it’s ridiculous that someone who doesn’t know u at all would start shit with u about who u are!

u don’t have to sacrifice ur positivity. there will always be more people like them and u never have to respond to any of them. they can’t take who u r away from u.

u have lived ur experiences and know u are valid. the people who matter know u are valid. an arse like that will convince themself ur invalid no matter what facts u tell them.

u never have to defend urself and ur validity to someone who uses the word tumblrina unironically. ur worth will still exist no matter what bs they say or whether u respond or not.

take care my friends.