mistersaturn123:

avatarsnowy:

I know that my style of joking with friends involves insults but if I ever say something that actually hurts your feelings even if I was joking and you know I was joking please tell me and I wont say that again because its not fun or funny if you’re actually hurting because of what I said

This is important because I’ve had friends do this stuff to me and it eventually put a lot of strain on said friendships. I was uncomfortable sharing my interests around them and while we’ve talked it out and we’re all good now, it was still not fun.

Playful insults are fun but always be aware of how much you do it and how it may be affecting your friends.