thesaltofcarthage:

splotchee:

splotchee:

How people treat you after you come out as trans is as if there was a murder and you are both the victim and the culprit.

Cis people will never understand the true pain of watching your family grieve your death while simultaneously treating you as if you, personally, cut the throat of whomst their grief lies with, even though its you, and you’re still living.

what did that one person’s great therapist say? “Your father is mourning an empty grave; you’re not obligated to go lie down in it.”